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John Anthony Joseph Aberle
10/4/2004 - 2/15/2026
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Obituary For John Anthony Joseph Aberle
John Anthony Joseph Aberle was born October 4, 2004 to Robert and Melissa (Haeder) Aberle in Rapid City. He was a K-12 student of the Rapid City Catholic School System and graduated in 2023.
He was baptized on All Saints Day, Nov. 1, 2004.
Days before the beginning of Lent our son was resurrected into new life. We loved our John boy and that love will continue. We don’t know the number of days assigned to our life but we do know that a supremely good God knows better than we do. He is goodness, truth and beauty. We return him to the arms of his Father and we know that we will see him again.
We have come to understand that John never met a stranger. He was generous with his time, humor and profound intellect. A good friend to many and a solid source of support. He was loyal, had beautiful eyes and an infectious smile. Now, having seen the goodness that waits for those who love Jesus, he understands – and waits for you to call on him. He can help you sort through your trials, comfort you and petition the Author of Life on your behalf. He is a better son, a better brother and the best of friends because now he completely knows The Truth. He knows that the only goal worth working for is eternal life in Jesus Christ.
Divine Mercy ushered us through John’s last days with a profound outpouring of Graces. His family is grateful for this community and an amazing provision of support through prayer, calls and generous affection. We are also grateful for John’s abundance of friends – many of whom we just met. We will see him again each at God’s perfect timing. During the hour of mercy on February 15, 2026 he returned to the Father. We await our own return to the Divine Healer. Jesus, we trust in You.
He is preceded in death by his paternal grandparents Al and Janice Aberle. Left with the memories of John are his family Robert, Melissa, Maria and Gianna. His extended family includes his maternal grandparents John and Linda Haeder, Brandon of Aurora, Janal (Jiggs) Biegler of Timber Lake, Don (Rondi) Aberle of Promise, Roger Aberle of Promise, Barbra (Kerry) Droog of Mobridge, Anita (Bruce) Mathews of Ft. Pierre, Margret (Glenn) Malm of Ft. Pierre and Michael Haeder of Rapid City. He is also survived by his cousins; Lyle (Megan), Kyle (Renee), Karyl (Chad), Mike, Jennifer (William), Ethan, MaKayla (Mike), Dana, Alyssa (Mick), Brady (Amber), Marissa, Bailee, Alekiah, Lacey (Matt), Kaeley, Carley, Joe, Anna and Judah.
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Vigil
07:00 PM
Mass of Christian Burial
10:30 AM - 11:30 AM
Interment
11:45 AM
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Tributes
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Shelley Ebel sent Ocean Devotion for John Anthony Joseph Aberle - 02/19/2026
Aberle Family, Heaven has gained another angel! Although we are far away, we will hold you close in our thoughts and in our hearts today and always. Love, Herb & Shelley Ebel
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03/11/2026
Melissa, Robert and Family, We are so so sorry to hear of your loss. The strength, faith and love of our Lord and Savior has been such a beautiful example for all, especially John. What you gave him in this life is the most precious gift of all. Please know you are all in our hearts and prayers.
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03/01/2026
Our hearts are breaking for you Robert and Melissa. I wish I could surround you with a pain relieving hug. I know John is in God's glory and you all will be together again. Much love Bobby and Kafe Baumiller
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02/27/2026
It broke my heart to hear about the loss of your son, John. I'm so very sorry...no parent should have to bury a child. I pray God continues to provide you strength through this very difficult time. - Raquel Tamayo
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02/23/2026
Robert & Melissa, I'm so sorry to learn of the loss of your son. May he rest in peace, Aida Roig-Compton
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02/21/2026
Melissa and family, sending prayers for comfort and peace. My deepest condolences. Glenda Norman
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02/21/2026
Robert, Melissa and daughters, please know I am with you in my prayers for John and all of you. I remember him running around the living room with his Sister the one time I stopped by to visit. My Jesus, I trust you! With love, Fr. Jim H.
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02/21/2026
Michele and I were saddened to hear about the loss of John. May Jesus bring you the kind of peace only He can bring. I pray Our Lady of Sorrows intercedes for Robert and Melissa during this time of grief. May John rest in the arms of Jesus. We are praying for you!
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02/21/2026
That gorgeous smile is on his face continually now! What a beautiful boy. What a handsome man! Can't wait for your family to be reunited in the Presence of out Lord. Thinking of you all multiple times a day and praying for grace, faith, stamina, guidance. His life is becoming a strong ministry!
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02/21/2026
Our hearts ache deeply for you in this time of unimaginable loss. The passing of your beloved son is a sorrow that words can hardly express. We pray that you find comfort in the embrace of God's infinite love and the promise of eternal peace. With deepest sympathy and prayers, Nikki, Mike, Ashley and Ryan Wojcik
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02/21/2026
You and your son have been held in my mind and prayers these past couple weeks. I've been touched by the depth of grace and faith and hope that these times have born. The peace of Jesus defies understanding. -Elisabeth Haddix
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02/20/2026
Missy, and Robert You are in our Prayers During. This time, Randal. And Bonnie Halvorson
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02/20/2026
Dearest Aberle family, We send our deepest sympathy, love and prayers in this time of profound sorrow. Praying for John and each member of your family and all of John's many friends. May God grant you strength, comfort and the peace that passes all understanding. Greg and Janine
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02/20/2026
Sending prayers and sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. Cathie Harris
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02/20/2026
Aberle family, know of our continuous prayers for you all as you grieve the loss of John. As we watched the video of your memories with John, we join you in praising God for those memories. Lonny and Linda Hofer
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02/20/2026
Marty and I have Heavy hearts for you and your entire family. Please know that you all are in our hearts and prayers. Heaven gained an exceptional angel.
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02/19/2026
So very sorry for the loss of your son. Rejoicing with him...as he is with his Savior. May God comfort you and give you His peace. Priscilla Sayles
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02/19/2026
Praying for God's comforting grace. Such a a Beautiful young man in faith and spirit, body, mind and soul. Beautiful parents, siblings, grandparents, and extended family. The full Cathedral is testimony to his influence in such few years. God bless the St. Thomas community for their prayerful presence. Dick and Judy Thompson
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02/19/2026
We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Thoughts and prayers to you all during this difficult time.
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02/19/2026
Robert, Melissa and family, we send prayers for God's comfort at this time. God is gracious and knows what you need. - Jenny & Tim Sullivan
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02/19/2026
I remember when I worked at STM, John was in the office one day. I thinks he was 18 months. and I gave him ice cream. Rober asked what if he's allergic to chocolate. Well to late now cause he having some. He was such a sweet boy. I enjoyed spoiling him.
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02/19/2026
Melissa I am So Sorry to hear about the loss of your Son. My thoughts are w you and your Family at this Very Difficult Time - Teri Heid
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02/19/2026
Dearest Aberle family, My grief is without measure for the passing of John. I know he is with our Savior and Lord. May God's abundance grace surround you always. Marie Broz
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02/19/2026
My deepest condolences to you all for such an unimaginable loss. May John's soul rest in heaven with our Lord and savior Jesus Christ. April McNaboe
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02/19/2026
May the Blessed Mother who buried her son, comfort and strengthen you as you lay your precious son to rest. Mike Gina Zach and Aaron Lemon
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02/19/2026
We are praying for comfort and peace for you all. May God wrap his arms around you, beautiful Aberle family! With Love~ Lisa, Leonard, Sam and Will Hansen
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02/19/2026
Dear Aberle Family, I cannot imagine what you are all going through, loss is one of the toughest things we endure here on Earth, but just remember that John is at peace and home in Heaven. He was a great friend, always kind and happy to be around. I appreciated our friendship very much. I am thankful that I got the privilege of knowing him during his time on this Earth. I'm praying for all of you. -Morgan Simonds
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02/19/2026
Melissa and family. So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Roberta Caswell
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02/19/2026
Prayers of strength for John's family and friends. Covet your memories.
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02/18/2026
Kevin and I have been praying for your family. Our hearts absolutely break for you. May God pour his blessings upon you. Hugs. Denise & Kevin Maher
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02/18/2026
My kids and I have been praying for you. Praying for God's peace and His arms around you holding you up. We love you so much. -Melanie, Jackson and Josephine
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02/18/2026
Words cannot express our deepest sympathies for you and all the family and friends. Hugs and prayers.
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02/18/2026
Sending hugs and prayers to you all. Sweet boy, may you rest in peace.
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